Help through Geomancy - 1. Hoping for a baby

An ideal house should be square or rectangle in shape.

In Geomancy, divide the plan of the house into 9 equal portions. Each sector represents an individual member of the family living in the unit.

                                    NW                             N                            NE

                                       l-----------------l-----------------l-----------------l

                                       l                     l                     l                     l

                                       l         F          l       MS         l       YS         l

                                       l                     l                     l                     l

                                       l-----------------l-----------------l----------------l

                                       l                     l                     l                     l  

                              W     l        YD         l   CENTER    l       ES         l     E

                                       l                     l                     l                     l

                                       l-----------------l-----------------l----------------l

                                       l                     l                     l                     l

                                       l         M         l        MD        l       ED         l

                                       l                     l                     l                     l

                                       l-----------------l-----------------l----------------l

                                   SW                             S                                SE

Legends :   F - Father                                      M  - Mother

               ES - Eldest Son                               ED - Eldest Daughter

               MS- Middle Son                              MD- Middle Daughter

               YS- Youngest Son                          YD - Youngest Daughter

Use a transparent plactic sheet and draw 8 equal 45 degree sectors on a 360 degree circle. Name the 8 main direction on the transparent chart and the respective family representation N(MS)-NE(YS)-E(ES)-SE(ED)-S(MD)-SW(M)-W(YD)-NW(F) in clockwise.. Place it over the centre plan of the whole house to determine the 9 sectors representation for analysis. Write the family member representation on the 9 sector plan of the house.

As long as the plan of the house is a complete square or rectangle, there is no missing sector.
 
If the sector for remedial action falls in the kitchen or washroom, then apply the remedy in the living and/or bedroom dividing them into nine sectors and apply the directional chart to determine the family representation.

1. Want a Baby and Specific gender.

Most couples wanted children in their marriages but unfortunately some cannot conceive due to medical reasons or without any logical reason. This topic is to analyse and hopefully provide a happy solution to the couples who cannot conceive without any medical reason.

a. Place a picture of a healthy beautiful baby boy in the East sector of the house if the couple wants the first child as male sex or a picture of a healthy beautiful baby girl in the South East sector if the couple wants the first baby of the female sex.

b. If the sector of the Eldest Son is missing in the plan of the house, the couple will not expect any son in the family. Similarly, if the sector of the Eldest Daughter is missing in the plan of the house, the couple will not expect any daughter in the family.

A missing sector means that the house is not a full square or rectangle and has a portion cut away from the plan of the house.

 If the house has a missing sector and the couple is childless, the couple will not be able to conceive the respective child gender indicated in that missing sector. It becomes most important if the first male/female child sector is absent.

However, the couple can stay in a good fengshui hotel or in a different house with good fengshui just to 'make' baby. If the Ba-zhi of the couple is taken into consideration, the chance of conceiving will be greatly improved with the best selected period and time for creating a baby.

Urinary Bladder Infections

Urinary bladder infections occurred more often in female than in males. Fever does not seems to go away. The lower back aches and there may be burning sensation while urination. In serious cases, the legs are not even able to support the person.

Why are females more susceptible to this infections?

There is a need to wash thoroughly after urination and dry properly as the damp area smeared with urine may cause bacteria growth which enters into the urinary system.

After clearing the bowel, females should use toilet paper to wipe from front to back of the anus. There may be bacteria transmission if the waste matter is accidentally come into contact with the Vulva if wiping action is from back to front of the anus. The auto-wash sanitary may pose a hazard to females as the flushing of the anus is from the rear and waste matter liquid can splash and come into contact with the Vulva. Washing should be done from front to back.

During sexual intercourse, some sex partners practise oral intercourse during foul play. The bacteria of the saliva thus makes contact with the urinary system. Virginal bacteria is also transmitted to the partner from the saliva in the mouth. A sterilised rubbery latex condom can be used to prevent direct contact.

Anal intercourse also introduces bacteria from the Large Intestine to the Urinary system when the virginal intercourse is performed later. The more hygienic way is to use condom for anal intercourse and not use the same condom for virginal intercourse. However, the condom used for virginal intercourse can be used for anal intercourse as introducing bacteria from the virginal to the Large Intestine has no serious consequences.

Venereal diseases are also the likely causes.

Urinary Bladder infections in males are usually due to prostate infections and venereal diseases.

Practise safe sex for both partners' health and well being.

Urine treatment

Urine treatment has a long history. Many practitioners of urine therapy have claimed that drinking their own urine can help to treat many ailments in our body when modern medicine fails to work.

Even though it may be true, some precautions have to be taken. The urine from critically-ill people like Aids; Kidney failure, Diabetes and Cancer sufferers are highly toxic and not suitable for use.

Drinking urine may be difficult to stomach, however urine for external application for skin diseases can be an alternative to modern medicine. Avoid skin with open wounds.

Urine contained toxins which is extracted from the blood through the Osmosis process by the kidneys and collects in the urinary bladder (Yang in nature) before discharging through the urethra. The application of the yang toxic urine for skin diseases which are usually yang in nature may be effective. That is poison versus poison. Poison discharging from underneath the skin versus the urine, poison discharged by the whole body system. Use fresh urine for each new application. Urine left over for a period may becomes contaminated with other dangerous bacteria.

It is your body wellbeing. Doctors only prescribe medicine that they are familiar with and apply their knowledge within the Medically approved methods of treatment. All problems or diseases have solutions or remedies. It is a matter of time; right timing and condition to meet your nobleman who can helps you; patience, fate and blessing of the people seeking them and the attitude of not giving up.

Ghost Disturbance

Well, it is a fact that when a person has low spirituality or bad luck, he/she will likely to see or disturb by spirit.

What to do when you are in close vicinity to a spirit? All your goose pimples especially both arms will be standing on ends and your will feel the shiver down your spine.

When you are asleep, the entity may pressed on your abdomen. It is a struggle to escape when you are unable to wake up, you can only move your hands with great difficulty. Your mind know that you are under attack by an entity.

How to get yourself free? There are basically two simple methods you can do. Make a lotus symbol or the figure of a buffalo's head and its two horns with one of your hands. Touch the middle and ring finger with the thumb. If you can execute the connection of the respective fingers during the attack, the entity will disappear immediately and you will be fully awaken from the ordeal. Another method is to chant the Buddhist phrase aloud ' OM MANI PADME HUM' during the attack. This is a powerful chant that can counter most spiritual attacks.

Clear the area of junks and brighten the place up if there is a presence of an entity. Hang a 6 ancient coins amulet on the wall and also place a 7 starred crystals at the same location.

To check the state of the house of spiritual and geomanic conditions, bring along a baby or a dog into the house. If the baby feels comfortable or the dog looks normal, than that place is alright to stay or cleansing has been successful.

When the entity continues to cause disturbance, consult a Taoist; a priest, spiritual medium or a Buddhist monk, etc to handle the problem.

You can contact a friendly Buddhist Resident Monk, Bhante Y. Sumanasara at 6396- 9182 / 9234-6944 at The World Buddhist Society 9B Hamilton Road Singapore 209180 to seek assistance.

Show your mannerism when you have to stay in a Hotel or temporary lodge. Knock on the door and ask for permission to stay for the specific number of days before entering the room. There may be an entity present. You are unknowingly disturbing or encroaching into its space. A fresh piece of 'soccer' grass kept in our pocket can protect us temporarily. Change the room if all these methods fail to work.

Some of the entities haunt the living who encroach into their space. These entities may have died horribly during their life time by murder; torture and suicide. Another cause may be due to their remains in their burial grounds have not be cleared thoroughly and structural buildings are built over it. The latter case will be very difficult to resolve without removing their remains.

Learn to show respect and kindness to the spirits; the dead, the ghost festivals and the remains of the dead as they processed all the good and bad human characters even when they died. However, they may be filled with more hatred; anger and pettiness because of being trapped in this world without friends and family.

Wide Angle Vision

A closed up view allows more minute details to be observed. This is an advantage when  micro work is concerned. However in our daily mundane life, looking at  micro details of everything is not sufficient, we must learn to look at the macro details. Micro details only provide limited representation while the full or wide angled pictorial vision provide the whole representation of problems, happenings and possible corrective actions. 

If you are a particular department head, the situation in your department is known to you but you do not know much of other departments. The Chief Executive Officer who oversees all the departments in the group will be able to see the overall situation of the whole company. Only through constant meetings, coordinations and updates will let all the department heads know the company's targeted plans and progress. If you are holding a low position in a section of a department, you know your work well but do not know much of what is going on in your whole department.

If you are involved in a situation which is difficult to solve, close your eyes. This is a mental method. Let your mind move out from your present state. Focus your  mind with a pictorial view of the whole situation; environment, all the happenings and people that are involved. It will be like you are standing outside your house, office or company looking at your working environment. Relax and meditate by bringing your mind to a calm state. You may begin to 'see' what is going wrong and possible solutions may come in bits and pieces. You will 'understand' the whole problem and able to apply the solutions.

The physical method is to stand outside the environment you are in or having  problems to tackle. Stand or sit calmly at a short distance away and look at the whole space. Observe the working attitude of your staff and how the works are being carried out. Why does a particular staff always report in sick? Objects and empty spaces begin to 'talk' to you. It may be the problems with bad geomancy...

Repeat these methods until you are able to find the solution you wanted.

Foreign Domestic Maids

Well, many employers do not know how to treat their maids properly or they may think that they have treated them nicely because they did not ill-treat them.

Some employers really abused their maids with different unimaginable and inhuman methods. These maids suffered in silence until a point of no return when retaliation with death with the employer or their own suicide. This is a great pity in human race. Some employers are still treating maids as slaves, beating and torturing them because they do not follow instructions or make mistakes. It is a shame. If the maids are really incompetent, send them back to the maid agency or back to their country. It is tormenting to both employer and maid.

Usually the maids are not very educated and do not understand our dialects or languages. They may nod their heads in acknowledgement that they understand or know what is tasked on them, however they may misunderstand the whole issue and do something else instead. As time passes, learn to understand your maid's character and habits. Check on them to ensure the tasks given to them are done in your  manner. Have the patience and endurance to teach your maids for a period of time, otherwise change a new maid. Every family has their own ways and schedule of doing things, similarly every maid has her own way of doing work. Give them a list of tasks to be carried out for each day and check their performance. As a matter of fact, we must not be too demanding.

Sufficient rest and proper sleep must be given to the maids to ensure their good health. A sick maid will spend on medical cost and zero work done. Cooping in the house may cause anxiety effect of imprisonment, unhappiness and frustration for the maids. Bring the maids out for marketing, shopping and outings whenever possible. Give them extra money or gifts on special occasions to reward them for their good work, birthday and new year, etc. Treat the maid as part of your family members is the solution to the maid and employer relationship. If both parties treat each other as enemy then you can expect a stealth war to surface in time to come. Treat your maid like everyone else in your family with compassion, love and understanding as well as providing physical, mental and emotional support.

There may be a need to install remote cameras in your house to observe the maids if they are employed to take care of young babies or old folks that cannot speak because they cannot tell you if they are being ill-treated. Ensure that all valuables and money are properly locked up so as not to invite unwanted theft by the maid or accusing the maid of theft when valuables or money are lost. Most of the maids come from average or poor families in search of work and high salaries to support their family and childrens' school expenses and house/land purchase, etc. Theft of valuables and money in the employer's home is a possibility, so don't encourage or create a crime of possible theft by your own actions.

Get a prepaid telephone card and a cheap or your old/spare hand phone so that your maid can make calls back home with control their usage. You can deduct from the maid's salary or give the initial cost of the phone card as a small encouragement. A little 'carrot' will make the maid feel at home. As for other money matters, it is wise to let the maids handle themselves the sending of their hard earned money back home, otherwise if there is any dispute of the money not reaching their family, the employers may have to pay for the money lost.

If the maid does not improve in their work or becoming uncontrollable after working for a period or abusing the goodwill given to them or meeting with bad companies, it may be wise to cancel their service.

State proper instructions, requirements and warnings to the maid right from the beginning of their service. Have a good employer and maid working relationship for all. Good luck.