Saturday, May 22, 2010

Marriage and Divorce

Why a beautiful relationship can ends in divorce?

Is it fate that brings a couple together and is it fate that separate them ?

Below is an analysis of the 5 element theory of the birth data which can foretell a relationship of a couple :

Case 1. The couple are made for marriage if the elements needed by both spouses can be found in their corresponding birth stars. This is a good marriage combination. Example: Spouse A has excess of Water element but deficient in Wood element while Spouse B has excess of Wood element and needs Water element to balance the birth stars ( Ba zhi ). They are both attracted to each other.

Case 2. If Spouse A needed Wood element and Spouse B does not have the element in his/her birth star but only appears in the 10 years fortune star, Spouse A would still be in love with Spouse B. However, Spouse A may begin to change in attitude; behaviour;  interest or love etc towards Spouse B when Spouse B move to a new 10 years fortune cycle without the element required to balance for Spouse A.

Case 3. Continue with Case 2. When Spouse (A) comes to a 10 years fortune star cycle under the love affairs star, Spouse(A) may be attracted to a new person and have love affairs outside their marriage.

If fortune is read in advance or love affairs have just begun, there may be solutions to save the marriage using geomancy and 5 element balancing.

It is the powerful planetary influences on the person that is creating the changes. It can be said to be predestined but destiny can be modified or corrected.

With this information at the back of the mind of readers, there are other important conditions to note. These are :

To love the person with the purpose of giving and having a lifelong companionship will produce a lasting marriage than expecting what can be received from the person in marriage. When the wants become unattainable, dissatisfaction will arise.

To change oneself to suit your partner will be simpler than changing your partner to suit you.

Sleeping or staying in an inauspicious location, bedroom or house may cause frequent quarrels within the family unit which may lead to breakup.

Religious prayers is one of the way to seek help.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        

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